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Random Act of Kindness
When you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside. It is as though something inside your body responds and says, yes, this is how I ought to feel. Nikita Wong. Wongy. Wongkie. Wongkitongkie. Ms. Wong. Nikita. Whatever name you know me by. This is my ranting and rambling on the memoirs of the olden days, the excitement of the present days, and the anticipation of the future. This is me, uncensored. |
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An update
Hmmm... quite a few people are interested with the development of my post below. To be perfectly honest - I have not come to any conclusion but I really do believe that I will come to some sort of a compromise with them (with myself rather with my parents - as they have given up on telling me what to do and this time around is my conscience calling).I might go back home for a little while after my MCP term. It might do me good to reflect on everything that I have learned in the last few years. These few years - it has always been challenges after challenges ; learning after learning but I actually have no proper time to internalise everything that I have experienced. I know I am born to be more than just get stuck in the kitchen. Without being an angry feminists or what not but my life obviously serves a bigger purpose than that! I do very much agree with the comment posted on the previous blog entry. Other people has also told me so. They will be happy for my final achievement. If that notion is true then what I need to do is to achieve. Simple as that. Labels: thoughts This is September
September always remind me to GreenDay's song - Wake Me Up When September Ends. For some weird reason this song is always'true' year after year. Perhaps, it's just one of those months where you are a hell out of busier than usual.
Major decision making also comes sooner than usual this year. It's only September yet I already have to think about "the next step". Hmmm, what am I going to do next year, I wonder. I have postponed it for so long but this year is the year where a major major decision will have to be made. *sigh* I had a very very interesting discussion yesterday that kept me up until 3 in the morning. What is the point of my life? What do I want to do in life? In the discussion I listed so many things that I want to do, things that I want to experience, things that I want to achieve. But for my dearly beloved counsin whom I grow up with - her aim in life is just one - she wants to make her parents happy. Making my parents happy. It's not a conept unheard of. I am sure, by default, every child wants to make their parents happy and proud. But the question is in what way? How? By abiding to every rules set, by following parent's every wish? After that long discussion - the what and how of it is still beyond me. Because unfortunately what my parents want and what I want are completely different although I do understand where they are coming from. If that's the case - am I selfish then? I do feel like a completely selfish person. Other people might see it differently and would tell me I should not think like this because it's completely stupid and that I have done many other unselfish things to people ... probably for other people.. but not for my own family - who , obviously, should on the top priority as they matter the most. *Sigh* Connection, Inspiration & ONE AIESEC - Turkey Tale Part II
ConnectionThe feeling of being in the stuffy, hot room at MCP Pre meeting was quite amazing. There I was amongst a group of people who have met each other at IPM (which I sadly missed). I was actually quite nervous about it as I literally have never met anyone in that room ever before. Once I stepped in to the room, the AP MCPs greeted me as if I knew them forever. All worries just dissolved to non existence. It just feels right, right where I belong. You speak freely to these strangers and yet they know exactly how you feel. Definitely MCP Pre meeting and the all-night legislation helped in creating that sort of bond. Outside of the MCP circle there are people that you just feel connected with. People with amazing stories, doing amazing things and have a relevant point of views that everyone could learn from, people you met from 2 years ago, people that went to the same IC two years ago...so many people with different backgrounds to talk to and enrich your own experience! Inspiration I think one of the best sessions at IC is the half-hour spent with Martin Bean. Martin was PAI in the 1970s. He is now working for Microsoft as their Global Education Manager. After all of those years, he still is very much passionate about AIESEC! The session that I was mentioning was not even part of the formal session agenda. It was an impromptu session as Martin asks for half hour from the Lego Fair time to talk to the MCPs. The struggles he had as an AIESECer at that time were no different to what we have nowadays. Family and studies are the two biggest obstacles in his AIESEC career. Especially being an undergraduate who was applying for MCP and later on PAI. When family and friends gave up on him, he never gives up and proved everyone wrong. With his AIESEC experience and determination to finish his studies after his PAI term – he arrived to where he is now today. One thing that he said that struck me the most is about how AIESEC Experience impacted his life. After years moved on from AIESEC, he still lives the AIESEC values. He is the living proof of how AIESEC changes the world. The story did not end there. When I was talking to Betsy from In AIESEC it is very very easy for us to get demotivated. Depending on which position you are in, it could easily been the most thankless job you could ever done in your entire life. But one thing I learned from this experience is to never doubt the mission of AIESEC and its impact in your life. Why are we here for? We are in the organisation not only for our own benefit but to enable others to have the same. One AIESEC Although Opening Ceremony was not as powerful as the one in India the closing plenary was definitely the best out of the two. Especially the part where some AIESECers singing U2's song, "One Love". On the screen it flashed the word "ONE" in all different languages. The theme of One AIESEC also felt all throughout the conference. Inclusiveness while doing GN roll calls. Working together through Inter-GN Cooperation. That song at the end conclude it all. It was nice. Labels: Events Direction & Action - Turkey Tale Part I
Back from International Congress 2007 in Direction The first few days were spent in educating the delegates about Global and Regional strategies and initiatives. Update from AI about the Global Information System (Goodbye AIESEC.net – hello the new friggin’ awesome GIS!), the AIESEC 60th Anniversary (Let me tell you it’s going to be massive! Start booking your flights to the events, people) the HEROES project (AP "HOT TO GO" initiative). Gabitza, the PAI facilitated the MCP Pre-Meeting day and AI members come and go throughout the day - introducing themselves and presenting their AI plan to a bunch of MCPs. The first three days (especially the first day) we were learning a lot about the global direction. Where do we want to go as an organisation? What is our relevance in the world? Why does AIESEC exist at all? The sessions designed to make you think of these questions – external relevance of AIESEC. One thing missing though, what is our internal relevance. This might not be applicable for delegates at IC (because everyone would have the same opinion – it is relevant for each one of them otherwise they wont be there). This could be something that … Aaaannndd … Action Country meetings- heaps and heaps of country meetings! Working groups and sub-committees! Phew! The whole 10 days of IC were full of action, self-initiated or AI-initiated. It becomes clear to everyone of us the concept of ONE AIESEC that Gabitza has in her PAI speech. One AIESEC, working together, having fun together. 100 Cupcake Campaign is coming to the LC near you? What is the 100 Cupcake Campaign? It is a way for AIESEC New Zealand to push exchange growth in the OGX side. It is a very exiting idea to capitalise on what This is just a recap of IC in a tiny nutshell. There are so much more to the experience than just strategy discussions and professional development =) There is also connection, inspiration, motivation and adventure that came out of IC. These are the things that you can not get anywhere else and that money cant buy. Labels: Events |
